Love And Trust Yourself
I don’t doubt that You, like every person on this planet has hard times! It’s okey to admit it and even try to understand it. Its completely normal every now and then to have down moments that are not going to be pleasant.
You, me, your neighbor, your boss, the person working down in the coffee shop, or at MCdonalds (for this last example its clear that the person is not in his best stage of life) all have problems.
You name them – mortgage, loans, money problems, health problems, job or love problems, etc. The really bad thing is that even if the negative situation is not that big of a deal, we all know how quickly a small bad thing can take over our entire thoughts and turn us into an unhappy person, even in a depressed one.
But here come the good news. You can actually do something about it, not just stand there and wait for a miracle. The people that do that are never getting what they want simply because they are too afraid or lazy to go after it. As long as you are in this position your life will pass by you and never give you the call you want and so desperately need!
I can give you the most important and easy way to deal with all kind of problems. It is up to you if you want to try it and see for yourself how greatly it will work for you as well as it did for me.
I think that every thing has a solution and if you don have the answer how to deal with a problem than its just to soon for you to learn it. What you can do in the mean time to get rid of all those nasty thoughts is actually pretty easy. Think of a person who inspires you, a singer, actor, painter, anyone who is fearless and awesome for you! Now have a look at your idol’s way of behaving and handling with life.
For instance, Justin Bieber, who some may not like but others adore, has faced many problems with the public opinion and etc. He has his ups and downs. The thing that helped me out with my problems was figuring out this:
All of the people, no matter who they are, if they are poor or rich, famous, random etc have so much to deal with in everyday life. But the thing that distinguishes one from the other is that some of us want to do more and do it better.
In order to do that you should stop carrying so much about what the others may think of you and just do it!
For example: Just yesterday Justin received an award at the Billboard Music Awards. However something was bothering him and later that day he posted what was on his mind.
“I don’t know about these award shows,” Bieber admitted in a lengthy Instagram rant on Monday. “No disrespect to anybody at any of the shows or the people running it. Nothing but love for you guys and your support. But I don’t feel good when I’m there nor after. I get the premise is to award people for their accomplishments, but is it really? Because when I look in the audience I see a bunch of fake smiles so that when the camera hits them they look happy. Sure there are people truly proud of others so I don't want to knock them I'm just looking at the vast majority. I just think to myself if I'm living my purpose I want the reward to be fulfillment. I'm getting awarded for the things that I'm doing and not for who I am which is understandable I know it would probably be hard to calculate and award someone's spirit lol. But When I do get these awards the temptation of putting my worth in what I do is so hard to fight!!!I am privileged and honored to be recognized by my peers in but in these settings I can't feel the recognition.”
Now the reason why I am telling you this is because I want you to see that every one of us needs to have faith in himself. That my dear reader is the only way to victory and achieving every goal you have set up in your mind right now and actually feeling happy and great about yourself.
You need to trust and love yourself, no matter what the others might say about your way of dealing with things. So the next time you start to feel down or when it comes to dealing with bad and unpleasant situations and thoughts, we all know how hard it is to get back on track.
You, like me are searching for the best and easiest way to do that and help yourself, trust me, I know. So it doesn’t hurt to try, I hope You will be able to get your inner Idol out two! Good luck!